Breaking the Spell is NOT Just Another Happiness Book...

It's a Global Wake-Up Call to Re-evaluate our Constant Pursuit
of Money, Success, and Yes... even Happiness

So we can actually achieve all three.


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If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. That’s what we’re taught, isn’t it?

We keep striving for more and very often fall into the trap of “I’ll be happy when . . .” believing one more achievement or one more possession will finally make us happy.

But the research shows that even when we get these things, they don’t result in lasting happiness. And, unfortunately, this constant pursuit of money, success, and happiness has left millions of people frustrated, knee-deep in debt, or victims of foreclosure and bankruptcy. Just look around. The symptoms are everywhere.

How did we get so caught up?

What led so many hard-working people to believe more money, bigger houses, fancier cars, and more successful careers or businesses were the keys to happiness? In most cases it’s not about greed. We’re simply in search of security, love, and happiness, three of our basic human needs.

Sadly, we’ve been conditioned to live our lives striving for more, to compete, to win, so we can fulfill these needs. We’re surrounded by messages about being, doing, and having more. As a result, from the time we’re children we’re taught that’s the path to happiness.

Breaking The Spell investigates the many ways we’re sold happiness in the form of money, achievement, success, and material possessions.

It delves into the roles played by societal and cultural influences, our educational system, youth sports, and the personal development industry. It looks at how we’ve been influenced by social media, reality television, and advertising.

It considers the impact of the real estate and financial markets and even takes a look at generational trends, personality type, and addiction.

Even if you don’t think it has affected you, you may be surprised—we’re surrounded daily by these messages and it’s pretty hard to escape their spell.

Breaking the Spell will open your eyes and help you understand why we’ve become so spellbound as a society, and individuals, to constantly chase more.

This is not just another happiness book. It’s a global wake-up call based on solid research, the author’s personal experience, and heart-wrenching personal stories from people around the world.

It’s time to step back and re-evaluate our constant pursuit of money, achievement, success, and happiness, so we can break the spell and finally experience the happiness we’re seeking.

Breaking the Spell is not about criticizing or judging where we’ve been, or what we’ve done…
It’s about stepping back, observing, and learning from history. It’s about redefining success and inspiring all of us to recapture our personal power, so we can live happier, healthier, wealthier lives. If you’re tired of working so hard, feeling like you can never quite ‘catch up’ and you just want to be happy, you owe it to yourself to read this book.

~Debbie LaChusa, author of Breaking the Spell





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For those who want to know more, read on…

Maybe you can relate… for yourself or someone you know…

  • Are you tired of trying to live up to other people’s standards or expectations?
  • Have you been climbing the corporate ladder, only to discover there’s always another rung, and no matter how high you climb it never seems to be high enough?
  • Do you ever look in the mirror and wish you looked younger, thinner, more handsome or beautiful, and think life would be easier or you’d be happier if you did?
  • Have you been spending all the money you make and now find yourself without enough set aside for retirement?
  • Has trying to build your business or keep up with the Joneses (or maybe just your neighbors) landed you in debt?
  • Are you tired of investing with success gurus and feeling like they’re the only ones getting richer?
  • Are you constantly looking for that next job or promotion so you can feel like you’ve finally made it?
  • Do you dream of winning the lottery, believing all of your problems will be solved if you do?

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  • Have you invested in success coaching or information products promising you’ll make money, only to be disappointed by your actual results?
  • Are you a high school student who is stressed out trying to get into college?
  • Are you a parent who is worried about your teen and all the stress they’re under at school?
  • Do you feel bad because you have a job, and not your own business, after constantly being told you’ll never be financially free in a job?
  • Did you get caught up in the real estate boom and end up losing your home, or an investment property, when the market crashed?
  • Did you tap into your home’s equity and now find yourself upside-down in your mortgage?
  • Do you look around and feel like everyone else has it better than you?
  • Do you feel like no matter what you do, how much you spend, or how much you have, you’re still chasing an elusive level of money, success, or happiness?

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I could go on… but you get the idea


We spend our lives doing what we think we’re supposed to be doing… seeking success, making more money, and buying all the things we think will make us happy. We’re often trying to live up to our parent’s expectations. Our teacher’s expectations. A mentor’s or coach’s expectations. Society’s expectations. Even our own expectations!

Everyday we’re surrounded by messages telling us that when we achieve these goals then we’ll have made itthen we’ll be happy.


For example…

  • Every day on TV we’re encouraged to buy furniture we can’t afford, with offers of NO MONEY DOWN and NO INTEREST.
  • Can’t afford that new car? No problem. Lease it. What they don’t tell you is you STILL won’t own it when the lease is up.
  • Can’t afford that bigger, nicer home? No problem. An interest-only loan or adjustable rate mortgage makes the payment affordable and you can refinance it to a 30-year mortgage later. What they don’t tell you is you may end up owing more than the home is worth, the monthly payment may adjust past a point you can afford, and you may not be able to refinance.
  • Can’t afford that dream vacation or home remodel? Just withdraw money from the “bank of home” via a home equity loan or line of credit. You can even deduct the interest. While it feels like free money, it’s NOT money… it’s a LOAN that must be repaid with interest.

 

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  • We’re inundated with credit card offers and catalogseven my dog receives them!
  • Groupon deals flood our in-boxes daily, enticing us to buy all kinds of things we never even knew we wanted.
  • Department stores offer one-day and weekend sales every week, just to get us back into their stores and spending.
  • Everywhere we turn, another expert is flaunting their success and promising us it can be ours, if we follow their simple steps.

This is the world we live in

We’re conditioned from the time we’re children to seek more… to want to win… to pursue happiness in the form of achievements and acquisitions.

It’s all about BEING, DOING, and HAVING MORE. The underlying message is consume and you’ll feel goodyou’ll be happy. I’m not saying that things can’t make us happy… sometimes they can. And perhaps that’s what causes the confusion.

The problem is no matter how much we buy… do… or have… many of us STILL are not happy. Far too often we find ourselves on a never-ending treadmill… constantly seeking more… and never really getting there, and digging ourselves into a great big financial and emotional hole instead.


It happened to me, and it’s happened to many people I know

And, if you look at the state of our financial world, the real estate market, the record number of foreclosures and bankruptcies, and the billions of dollars invested each year in personal development programs, it’s clear it has affected millions of people, AND…

  • Instead of becoming rich or financially free, many have lost everything and are deep in debt
  • People who thought they had finally achieved the American Dream have lost their homes and their good credit
  • Foreclosures have quadrupled since 2005
  • Bankruptcy filings have doubled since 2007
  • Kids don’t get to be kids anymore—they’re too busy trying to succeed in school, sports, and extracurricular activities
  • Teens are stressed out, and often become depressed, just trying to keep up, and get into college (Did you know suicide is the 3rd leading cause of death among teens?)

 

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  • Many people have been victims of corporate greed
  • Many people have lost their pensions and retirement savings
  • We no longer trust Wall Street and those in the financial services industry
  • We’re disillusioned with our government
  • We believed we could BE, DO, or HAVE anything, and we’ve paid dearly to achieve it… only to be disappointed


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When ironically, all we want is Security, Love, & Happiness

It’s time to wake up to the fact that money and success are NOT necessarily the path to these goals. It’s not that making money or seeking success is bad. They’re an important and necessary part of life. But in and of themselves they do not make us feel secure or happy, at least not for the long term. If you doubt that fact, just know there’s reams of research proving it. How else could a billionaire still be fearful about not having enough money (yes, examples are in the book). Why do extremely wealthy and successful celebrities seem to sabotage that very success, or worse, turn to drugs, alcohol, and even suicide (yes, examples are in the book).

Unfortunately, we’ve been conditioned to believe money, success, achievement, and material possessions ARE the path to happiness. We’ve been conditioned to believe they’re what we should be seeking. So that’s where we’ve put our focus. And that’s what we teach, and model, to our kids.

But the truth is, that’s backwards. Research has proven that those who are happy are actually more successful in every area of their lives. Happiness actually precedes money and success, not the other way around.

It’s time to turn things around so we can stop spending all our time pursuing happiness and just be happy. It’s time to break the spell.

Breaking The Spell:
The Truth about Money, Success, and the Pursuit of Happiness

A new book by Debbie LaChusa

NOW AVAILABLE ON AMAZON

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Breaking the Spell
Table of Contents

Preface
Introduction: Spellbound
Chapter 1: Show Me the Money
Chapter 2: I’ll Be Happy When . . .
Chapter 3: The Cult of Success
Chapter 4: You Can Be, Do, or Have Anything
Chapter 5: The Wonderful World of Web 2.0
Chapter 6: The Bubble Burst
Chapter 7: Defining Success
Chapter 8: Success Drive
Chapter 9: The Pursuit of Happiness
Chapter 10: Breaking the Spell
Recommended Resources
Acknowledgements
References
About the Author




Breaking the Spell
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Breaking the Spell Bonus Package

Purchase Breaking the Spell today and receive ALL of the following bonuses.

You will find details for accessing your book bonuses inside your copy of Breaking the Spell in the Preface and Recommended Resources sections.

Bonus#1: Breaking the Spell teleclass series

This bonus is available for a limited time only.

Breaking the Spell Teleclass Series with Debbie LaChusa

Join author Debbie LaChusa as she takes you deeper into the book’s content to help you Break the Spell.

  • Connect with Breaking the Spell author Debbie LaChusa on a series of teleclasses in June 2012
  • Better understand what may have led you to become spellbound, learn to release it and move on
  • Gain a deeper understanding of the Breaking the Spell strategies shared in the book
  • Learn how to apply the Breaking the Spell strategies in your life, or how to help those you care about
  • Ask questions, discuss the book, and share with others
  • Receive access to downloadable audio recordings of each class in case you can’t make the live calls

Bonus#2:  Get Clear! Program

This bonus is available for a limited time only.

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In Breaking the Spell Debbie talks about learning to “follow inspiration” and how it’s one of the ways she was able to break the spell herself, and learn to enjoy life without always feeling the need to strive for more. Debbie’s Get Clear! Program is a three-week home-study course with weekly audio recordings and simple exercises, designed to help you find and follow your inspired path. This course normally sells on Debbie’s website for $97, but it’s yours free when you purchase Breaking the Spell (available for a limited time only).


I can’t recommend Breaking the Spell
highly enough

Michael Angier“The words that come to mind when I think of Debbie LaChusa are professional, thorough and relentless in the search for the truth. I’ve been in the personal and professional development industry for more than thirty years, I can’t recommend Breaking the Spell highly enough. While success is an admirable goal, a variety of factors have led too many people on a virtual wild goose chase for success.

In this excellent book, Debbie delves into the reasons why so many people have gotten so sidetracked, ending up bankrupt and unhappy instead of financially free and blissful. This book explains so much and enables us to recapture our personal power on our quest for happiness and success. Bravo Debbie for being willing to share so honestly in the service of others.”

Michael Angier
Founder of SuccessNet.org


Bonus#3:  Breaking the Spell Audio Book

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Prefer to listen to the book while driving, exercising, or just relaxing? You’ll receive the entire book in audio mp3 format so you can load it onto your iPod, listen on your computer, or burn it on CD. That way you can listen whenever and wherever is convenient for you.



Bonus#4:  Free Chapter & Special Discount on The Millionaire Fastlane

The Millionaire Fastlane

Don’t let this book’s title fool you. It is NOT about getting rich quick. It shares the real story about creating a financially-free lifestyle, and unlike many of the success gurus out there, author MJ DeMarco actually is financially free… and he didn’t get that way selling information, or seminars, on how to become financially free.

This book shares a different perspective than most “creating wealth” books. You’ll receive the first chapter free, along with a special “BTS Tribe” discount on the book.

Debbie LaChusa has struck gold with Breaking the Spell

MJ DeMarco“As a millionaire I’ll be the first to admit that money makes life easier. But Debbie LaChusa has struck gold with Breaking the Spell: most people are far too focused on making more money or achieving higher levels of success, believing when they get both, then suddenly, they’ll be happy.

Breaking the Spell makes an unforgettable and eye-opening case that we’ve been falsely conditioned by society, gurus, and yes, even our parents and teachers to believe that MORE, in all aspects of life, is the key to personal fulfillment. This book tells an engaging story sure to crack fissures through anyone’s perspective.

By sharing LaChusa’s personal experience on her seven year, $200,000 quest for more, punctuated by solid research, a liberating truth is brought to light—one that is sure to change lives. If you or someone you love has been searching for happiness via money, success and other stuff that you might find at a mall or car dealership, you owe it to yourself to read this book.

MJ DeMarco
Author of The Millionaire Fastlane
www.themillionairefastlane.com
twitter.com/MJDeMarco


Bonus#5:  Free E-book, Just Who IS in Charge Here, Anyway?

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One of the things Debbie shares in Breaking the Spell is that she worked with a mind re-patterning practitioner to help her break the spell. That person was Scout Wilkins. Scout was was gracious enough to share this wonderful ebook she wrote about breaking through the conditioning we’ve all been subjected to since childhood, and taking back control of our minds, so we can stop feeling compelled to strive for more, and learn how to just be happy.


Debbie’s book provides an invitation to that oh-so-powerful moment of insight when everything changes

Scout Wilkins

“When you stop, look your life full in the face and ask: Really? Is this working? Am I going to keep on doing what I have been doing, and hope that somehow things are going to be different?

Or, am I going to shift one small, profound thought, which will shift everything?

The new thought – Am I going to keep pursuing money, hoping it will buy happiness… or am I going to choose happiness, right now?”

Scout Wilkins
Unconscious Mind Re-patterning Expert
Author, Just Who IS In Charge Here, Anyway?
www.ScoutWilkins.com


Bonus#6: Free Chapter from The Now of Happiness

The Now of Happiness

After interviewing Kimberly Englot, author of The Now of Happiness, and founder of The Center for Authentic Self Development, Debbie wanted to share more of Kim’s perspective on happiness with Breaking the Spell readers. Kim graciously offered to give everyone who purchases Breaking the Spell the first chapter of her book, for free.


Finally someone has the guts to come out of the closet with the truth

Kimberly Englot

Breaking the Spell will change lives!

I love this book and I guarantee it will be a staple resource, sitting on my desk instead of hiding on the book shelf. I found myself nodding and agreeing throughout the book and noticing several points and conversations I’ve had in my own head and with other entrepreneurs. Finally someone has the guts to come out of the closet with the truth about happiness, money and the ‘self help’ industry!”

Kimberly Englot
Author, The Now of Happiness, http://thenowofhappinessbook.com


Bonus#7: Free Chapter from Tragedy in Sedona

Tragedy In Sedona: My LIfe in James Arthur Ray's Inner Circule

James Arthur Ray was a well-known success guru, featured in the movie The Secret, and on Oprah and Larry King Live. He charged his clients thousands of dollars for courses promising them spiritual enlightenment. Until three of his students died at one of his events in 2009. Connie Joy was a member of James’ inner circle and in her book she shares a captivating look at what drove so many smart, educated people to follow Ray.

If you think only greedy or stupid people can get caught up in guru promises of enlightenment, fame and fortune, think again. Connie and her husband are successful and smart business owners, as were many of the people they met at Ray’s events. Debbie interviewed Connie for Breaking the Spell and she read Tragedy in Sedona and wanted to share this book with Breaking the Spell readers because of the valuable insights it offers into the often seductive world of self-help.

Connie graciously offered to give everyone who purchases Breaking the Spell the first chapter of her book, for free.


We’ve been conditioned to believe we ought to spend our lives achieving and learning more

Connie Joy

“In this quest for more, far too many people get caught in the web of exaggerated marketing messages and guru promises. They put the experts on pedestals only to later find out that their trust was misplaced and misused. Often finding themselves not richer or happier, but poorer, disillusioned, and frustrated.

In Breaking the Spell, Debbie LaChusa exposes why so many people have gotten caught in this web and offers suggestions for breaking free and recapturing our lives.”

Connie Joy
Author of Tragedy in Sedona: My Life in James Arthur Ray’s Inner Circle

 


Bonus#8: Free Audio Recording, Navigating Change & Restoring Trust

Navigating Change

This bonus audio recording, donated by Monique Gallagher of Highest Potential Training, shines a light on why we so often get derailed and end up following others instead of our true self. It shares signs that we are disconnecting from our true self along with steps to help us re-align.


Wow, finally someone is pulling back the curtain on the guru/coaching business

Monique Gallagher“I personally recall being desperate for guidance in how to build my business and I suspect that I was being brain washed to follow a model that wasn’t aligned with my values. Some business coaches I discovered were way more focused on THEIR success than mine.

I recognize how we were trained to spend money to earn money. I followed that for too long and in the end it ended up taking ‘me’ out of our business. People buy from people they know, like and trust and being a copycat isn’t the path to success in business or in life. To thine own self be true.

Thank you Debbie for taking this bold step!”


Monique Gallagher
Highest Potential Training


Bonus#9:  Free E-book, 15 Secrets to Handling Change Like a Pro

15 Secrets to Handling Change Like a Pro

Breaking the Spell is a book that calls upon all of us to change. Change how we look at things. Change how we behave. Change how we operate our lives and our businesses. But change can be hard. This e-book, written by The Life Change Network founder, John Ryan, is a great resource to help you successfully handle, and even embrace change. It will help you take a look at some of the beliefs, values, and behaviors that will assist you in successfully navigating even the most challenging situations.


This book will definitely open your eyes

Christine Kloser“This is not your typical self-help, transformational book. Yet it is extremely powerful. Part memoir, part exposé, Breaking the Spell delves into the reasons many people get caught in the quest for more money and more success and the detrimental affect it can have on their emotional and financial well-being.

Debbie LaChusa points to evidence all around us that explains this preoccupation with being, doing, and having more. Through her own story, considerable research, and interviews she conducted with everyday people and experts, she offers an alternative approach for creating a happy, healthy, wealthy life.

This book will definitely open your eyes and force you to re-evaluate much of what’s considered ‘normal’ in our society.”

Christine Kloser
Spiritual Guide, Intuitive
Author of Beyond Mindset: Everyday Inspiration to Help You Remember What Your Heart Already Knows
www.transformationalauthor.com


Bonus#10:  Interview Recordings & Transcripts

Breaking the Spell Interview Transcripts & Recordings

While doing research for Breaking the Spell, Debbie LaChusa interviewed 34 people from around the world, both experts and regular people, to learn more about attitudes and behaviors around money, success, and the pursuit of happiness. You’ll find excerpts from those interviews sprinkled throughout Breaking the Spell, but there was not enough room to include everything (the book would have been 800 pages long!)

Debbie was amazed at how openly and candidly people shared their experiences and thoughts on money, success, and happiness, and wanted to share the interviews, in their entirety, with Breaking the Spell readers by providing the full interview transcripts and recordings.


It’s the side of the story that many never discuss… in public

Tamara Gold

“Debbie’s diligent research and honest interviews with some of today’s entrepreneurs, help us see beyond the illusions of success. She explores why many of us chase one goal after another and the importance of listening to your inner wisdom.

A great read if you’ve ever questioned why many of the success models haven’t worked for you and your business. It’s the side of the story that many never discuss… in public.”

Tamara Gold, CEO Tamara Gold Enterprises, Inc.
The Art of Beautiful
Empower Yourself. Empower Others.
www.tamaragold.com




Breaking the Spell
is Now Available on Amazon

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I can’t wait for you to read Breaking the Spell!

I spent 6 months researching and writing it. I learned a ton… it was a transformational journey and I know it can be the same for you, too.

I guarantee the book will make you stop and think. I believe it will inspire you to want to create change for yourself, for those you care about, and the world.

And, I do believe that if enough of us are moved to make these changes, and we take the action to do so, we can change the world for future generations. We can create a world that supports the creation of fulfilling and happy lives that are not measured only in terms of money and success, but something much more meaningful.

My goal is to change the conversation around money, success, and happiness and this book is the first step.

Won’t you join me?

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Debbie LaChusa, Author of Breaking the Spell

About The Author

Debbie LaChusaDespite becoming a vice president in her thirties, building three successful six-figure businesses in her forties, becoming a millionaire, speaking internationally, and sharing the stage with celebrity teachers from The Secret, Debbie LaChusa never felt satisfied.

After spending seven years and $200,000 constantly trying to achieve more, she realized she had become spellbound. She looked around and saw she wasn’t alone, prompting her to embark on a yearlong investigative journey to understand why, so she could heal herself and help others. Breaking The Spell is the result of that journey.

You can learn more about Debbie at www.DebbieLaChusa.com and read her musings about money, success, and happiness on her blog at www.MoneySuccessHappiness.com




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